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Tips for success
Getting Visitors To Come
One of the biggest killers of a small-group home Bible study program is a
lack of visitors. The easiest way to get visitors is to invite your friends
and family to the studies. But, after a short time, you will exhaust this
resource and need to try something different. The best way to get visitors
to come on a steady and ongoing basis is to invite everyone you come in
contact with.
Here is the tool I currently use to invite people. I walk up to someone and
say, Hello, I attend a small-group Bible study that is hosted in a home. We
try to apply the Bible to our lives and learn from the life of Jesus. We
are looking for new people to come. Would you be interested? If they appear
interested at all, you must ask for their phone number! If they won't give
it, leave them a card. If they say that they work evenings and couldn't
attend, flip the card over and ask them if they want the first lesson of a
free Bible correspondence course. Say, You can study the Bible in the
privacy of your own home at your own speed. Just fill in your name,
address, and phone number and I will see that you get lesson one.
Generally, you will have to invite 50 people (50 attempts to establish a
dialogue) to get one person who holds promise. Develop the routine of
devoting one hour a week to intensive inviting in the parks, malls,
campuses, etc. It takes boldness; but if you develop the lifestyle of
inviting all you come in contact with, you will overflow with visitors
every week. You must invite this way in order to have ongoing success.
There is no middle ground or room for any half-hearted effort! Either each
Christian commits to invite like this, or don't bother starting up the
program.
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Three Stages Of The Study
Just as members are vitally important for bringing visitors, they also play
a key role on the night of the study. If you have someone who says that
they will come, it is best to offer to pick them up. This makes it more
difficult for them to change their mind about attending. Everyone should be
at the study ten minutes before it begins. Once you arrive at the home
where the study is hosted, think of the study as having three stages. This
will help to understand what is being accomplished.
A. Icebreaking (before the study)
The icebreaking stage continues from the time people arrive until you
actually start the study. Imagine how you would feel as a visitor when you
walk into a strange home for the first time and see an assembled group, all
seated, very quiet, and looking at you. You would feel uneasy and out of
place. At that point a visitor might say to himself, How did I get myself
into this? One way to overcome this problem is to create a warm, casual,
and genuinely friendly atmosphere. A few basic guidelines can be adopted to
help the visitors feel relaxed and comfortable. I suggest that everyone
remain standing and strike-up conversations with members and especially
with visitors. Be enthusiastic. The result should be a smooth transition as
you start the study. Don't stand around and look bored. Show how glad you
are to be there. Visitors will pick up the pulse of the group. If they feel
they just walked into a morgue or feel intimidated at the beginning, it's
harder to get them to return. Look ahead to when the study begins. Do each
of the visitors have a Bible? Have at least five extra Bibles ready for
use. Can they find verses for themselves? If not, make sure an appropriate
person sits beside them to help. The Christian can find the verse in his
Bible and then swap Bibles with the visitor. Or, they can share one Bible.
Start on time!
B. Creating Interest (during the study)
During the study the most important thing is to create interest and salt
their appetite for further study. Remember, they came because you
advertised the study to them by saying, We apply the Bible to our lives in
a practical way; you will enjoy the study. If the study is not interesting,
they may not return! You were guilty of false advertising. One of the goals
of the study is to get every visitor to openly participate by making
comments. Here is an easy way of getting the visitors to contribute right
at the start. If the topic is Dealing with Stress in the Workplace (Ex.
18:13:27), then ask an opening question like What would you do if you were
expected to do the work of two people and were continuously overloaded with
work? Have each person attending introduce themselves and then give their
answer. Before you have each person make comments, instruct the group to
say pass if they can't think of an answer or don't want to respond.
Although the teacher's outline preparation is important, the Christians
present will truly make or break the study. They can salvage a poorly
prepared outline or kill even the Lord's own sermon on the mount ! They
must work hard at participating. They are assistant teachers!
C. Building Relationships (after the study)
Since the studies are hosted in a home, it is natural to have some light
refreshments following the study session. This time is dedicated to
building relationships and starting friendships. Designate someone
beforehand to prepare and bring the refreshments. This should be on a
rotating basis. Also, designate someone to be the babysitter in case
visitors bring their children. Christians should make their own babysitting
arrangements.
Immediately after the study, the Christians should invite the visitors to
have some refreshments. The visitors will certainly not make the first
move. Talk with each visitor yourself but give others a chance to greet
them as well. Make sure no visitors are left unattended for an extended
period of time. Christians must be especially careful about spending a lot
of time talking about highly personal matters with other Christians.
Visitors will feel out-of-place if they sense there are social cliques.
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Suggested code of conduct for Christians in the study
For conduct during the study, the group members (Christians) might consider
adopting the following list of guidelines.
Be active in reading passages. Everyone who will read should raise
their hand. Visitors will know that they won't be called on to read unless
they raised their hand. Be conscious of who has read and take turns. When
chosen to read, always wait until every visitor has turned to the passage.
There is no need to raise hands for comments. Long statements (30
seconds or longer) tend to stifle comments from others. Offer relevant life
experiences, illustrations, and even humor. Visitors with no Bible
knowledge can contribute as much as anyone in this area.
Be careful not to use fancy theological words and statements.
Visitors probably won't know what you're talking about and will feel that
they should keep quiet while in the midst of theological experts!
It is best not to mention a Bible verse the leader hasn't
introduced. The members goal is to expand on the present verse. The verse
you give might be one of the teachers concluding points. Don't even mention
parallel verses in the gospels. The ones used are carefully chosen.
Don't mention any specific denomination because you never know the
background of the visitors. The place to talk about denominations is in a
one-on-one study and not in a group study.
Never disagree with a visitor or attempt to straighten their
doctrinal views. This is the leader's job.
Never disagree with what the leader says, even if you think he is
wrong! The teacher's credibility will be damaged in the sight of the
visitors. Take him aside later (after the study) and discuss the subject.
Chances are you were wrong!
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Go for One-On-One
Once a visitor has come to the study group a few times, ask him/her if
he/she would be interested in studying on a one-on-one basis. Teach them
the gospel and listen for the rejoicing of the angels!
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Advertising in Newspaper:
Ad placed in the Newspaper free of charge in the community bulletin
section:
Fax this to the newspaper directly to their editorial office:
Please place this notice in the Bulletin board
Small group Bible study Special meetings are beginning May 17 for seven weeks. Exciting and challenging, Applying the Bible to our lives. Hosted in homes every Monday night at 7 PM. Free. For more information call ****
Business Card size personal invitation for each member:
Side #1 of business card
SMALL GROUP STUDY
Informal Bible Study Hosted In Homes
Learning From The Life Of Jesus
Applying The Bible To Our Lives
Asking Questions & Finding Answers
Transportation And Child Care Available
Side #2 of business card
Every Monday 7pm
LOCATION: YOUR HOSTS:
Address
Name
Phone number for ride
Invitation Presented By: "name of member" ______
Steve Rudd
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